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Jim Huff of Hebron loves spending time with his two-year-old daughter, Mia Grace, adopted in 2008 from a Chinese orphanage. Huff and his wife Samantha also have three teenage sons.
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Mia Grace Huff


Published June 21, 2009 11:19 am -

Special bond
New daughter from China makes Father’s Day special

By Kara Kimbrough, LL-C Correspondent

Mia Grace Huff is like any typical two-year-old south Mississippi girl. She loves pretty pink dresses, wearing flip flops, putting her dolls to bed in her playhouse and listening to music.

Just like other parents of a precious little girl, Jim and Samantha Huff of Hebron shoot photos of their diminutive tot every chance they get, even posting an Internet blog called, “Mia Grace Moments.”

But when the camera is pointed her way, Mia Grace turns solemn, staring intently at the lens. With downy black hair and almond-brown eyes, she wears an expression that’s a cross between a smile and a puzzled look; almost as if she’s thinking about her next move.

It’s that contemplative look that Jim Huff hopes will soon be a thing of the past as Mia Grace becomes more secure of the enormous amount of love surrounding her.

It’s his primary wish as he celebrates Father’s Day today with Mia Grace and sons Ben, 19, and 13-year-old twin Miles and Matthew. Mia Grace was born in China and spent the first 11 months of her life in a crowded orphanage before meeting her new parents on March, 16, 2008.

The Huffs are part of a growing trend of American families adopting infants from China. They felt “a real tug on our hearts,” Huff says, after learning about the hundreds of unwanted female babies born annually in a land that places more value on males.

However, for this couple already raising three active boys, the circle of love in their family was made complete with the adoption of Mia Grace, they say.

After making the decision to adopt a baby girl from China, Huff says the next steps happened quickly and in some ways, appeared to drag by as the family became excited about bringing their new daughter home to Jones County.

A wide network of support that includes Jim’s parents, James and Marilyn Huff of Hebron, and his sister Melanie Hubbard and her husband Timmy, also of Hebron, provided encouragement and helped plan for the new arrival.

Samantha’s parents, Garland and Bobbie Miles, who live in the Indian Springs community, were perhaps the most excited of the extended group, Jim says, and for obvious reasons. The arrival of Mia Grace meant they would finally have a long-awaited granddaughter.

Months of gathering paperwork, such as medical examinations, reference letters, financial statements, background checks and a home study stalled the process of obtaining Mia Grace. Everything had to be notarized and then submitted first to the State Department and finally to other international agencies.

After everything was completed, the Huffs and oldest son Ben flew to China in March, 2008. Along with a group of U.S. families, the Huffs waited in line at the orphanage for their name to be called. Finally, the moment they had been waiting for arrived and their daughter was brought out to them.

Eleven-month-old “Xian-Li,” whose solemn face they had glimpsed just one month prior in a photograph, was placed in their arms. When the baby was passed to her father, she gazed up at his face for a moment. Tiny fingers then reached out and touched his mustache. It was at that moment that Xian-Li became “Mia Grace” and took a firm grasp on his heart, Huff says.

“It was an emotional moment for all of us, but as babies do, they know how to break the tension,” he says. “She had never seen a mustache before, as that’s not something Chinese men wear. It made us laugh and from that moment on, she has been my little girl.”

The Huffs has envisioned the first meeting with Mia Grace hundreds of times and had always felt, “this will be the greatest moment.” However, sending the first photos of Mia Grace via the Internet to an excited group of friends and family waiting in their living room back in Hebron was “almost as good,” Huff says.



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